In this article we will continue the topic of interaction between children and parents. We will talk about the most typical situations that lead to conflicts.
Do not unnecessarily protect teenagers from family problems. Such as psychological (even if there was an accident, someone’s illness or passing away, – it hardens the soul and makes it more sensitive) and material (it teaches to find a way out).A teenager needs positive and negative emotions. For successful development of a child it is useful to occasionally deny him/her something, limit his/her desires, thus preparing him/her to overcome similar situations in the future. It is the ability to cope with troubles that helps a teenager to be formed as a person. The role of an adult is, first of all, to help a child become an adult. This is mean to teach him/her to resist reality, not to run away from it. Keeping a child away from the real world, even with the best intentions, parents deprive him or her of the opportunity to gain life experience and find their way.
Never lie to a child, even if it is dictated by the best beliefs and care for his or her peace and wellbeing. Children in some unknown way feel the lie in any form. And the one who cheated once or twice, there is no need to wait for trust.
If you have already made mistakes in education. It will be harder for you than at the beginning of the journey. But if you find in your child at least a drop of good and then rely on this good in the process of education. You will get the key to his soul and achieve good results.
If you have realized that you were wrong and disregarded the opinion of your son or daughter in any matters important for them, do not be afraid to admit it to yourself and then to your child. And try not to repeat this mistake again. It is easy to lose confidence, and it is long and difficult to restore it.